I’ve loved and been loved and I’ve also been married (not necessarily all at once). Despite the destructive path of my relationship with Ric, I consider myself fortunate to have experienced, for some time at least, a sense of long-term sexual intimacy, characterised by shared humour, body acceptance, built up knowledge of each others triggers and a liberating lack of self-consciousness. Therefore an article by Dr Alice Radosh on the Modern Loss website resonated with my own experiences. Entitled “What is Sexual Bereavement?’